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June 2002 
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  • Summer Networking Strategies
  • Networking Foibles
  • An invitation to learn how to network effectively . . .
  • Choose Your Effective Networking Interests

  • Summer Networking Strategies
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    Here are a few things you can do over the summer to grow your network:

    Create your own Networking Criteria
    Put together a list of the type of people and events you are interested in.

    Then prioritize why you want to make a connection. Is it to get to know colleagues, grow your practice, explore ways to become a "thought leader" in your industry? The criteria can include who is the speaker or something logistical such as where to park. Choose what's important to you.

    Inventory your Network
    Write out a list of all the people you know and how they can help each other. Make introductions. Especially when you don't need anything from either person.

    Arrive Early at a Party
    When someone has a party their biggest fear is no one will show up. Arrive on time and offer to help. You become an unofficial host and will be forever endeared to the party giver.

    Think carefully before you say, "Can I buy you lunch?
    This can be a good idea or a really bad one. Essentially what you are saying is this person's time can be bought for roughly $20 depending on where you eat. You might be better received if you ask for 15 minutes at their office. Inquire what's best for them. [And be sure you know what you want from them!]

    REMINDER: If they accept your invitation for lunch, be sure to at least offer to pay for the entire meal. You don't want people going around thinking you are after a free meal.

    How to Avoid "Over-Networking"
    Invest 15 minutes of time before you run off to a networking event or pick up the phone. Decide if the event or person matches your networking criteria. Be good to yourself and don't "over-network."

    Networking Foibles
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    When's the baby due?
    Be certain the person is pregnant before you ask this question!

    Driving Gestures
    It is wise not to gesture your displeasure at someone's lack of common sense driving when you are nearing an event. It just may be the speaker or relative of the host to whom you have expressed yourself. This can be quite embarrassing, trust me!

    Dress Code
    I recently asked what was the dress code for an upcoming event. "Clothes," I was told. How helpful! If you are hosting an event, let the attendees know what is appropriate. The goal is to make them feel comfortable.

    Share your Networking Foibles
    We are seeking stories for the McGraw-Hill book. If you have one you'd like to share, please send it.

    Share your story with Effective Networking ... »

    An invitation to learn how to network effectively . . .
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    Start conversations and turn them into opportunities ... make good use of your summer - it's never too early or too late to start.

    Learn networking strategies . . . These are small, interactive sessions with role playing to prepare you for networking!

    Special pricing for the June 14th program designed for professionals. Job seeker programs are priced with a budget in mind.

    Sign up for Boston Workshops

    Want a private program? Not in Boston? We can help!
    If your organization would like to have a program, we'd be happy to travel to your company or an offsite meeting. We custom design a program to meet your needs.

    Phone and One-on-One in Person Coaching Available
    If you or someone you know is "network challenged" and would like some help, get in touch with us. We're here to help!

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  • Email Strategies
    Did you know when you send an email you are missing 93% of your communication power? Pick up the phone. Combine your words WITH your voice/tone to give you 45%.

    Subject Line
    This is PRIME real estate. Use it wisely. Make the subject line entice people to open your email.

    One Screen
    Keep your message brief.

    Attachments
    When including a proposal or resume, name the document with the receiver in mind. "Resume v.3" can quickly get lost in a recruiting agency and if the company is expecting several proposals, be sure yours stands out.

    Signature
    PLEASE be sure your contact information is attached to every email. It's aggravating when the receiver wants to call and the phone number isn't there. Make it EASY for people to get in touch.

    Address Grabber
    Check out my new favorite networking tool! Highlight the person's contact information in their signature, click and it immediately goes to Outlook, ACT, Lotus and many other programs. NO retyping or cut and paste.

    Try Address eGrabber!

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